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I read tons and am a freeloader. I couldn't afford to pay for everything I like to read but your column is one of the best!

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I wanted to vote for 2 (more posts) and 3 (chat), but it wouldn't let me! I don't see them as mutually exclusive.

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what happened when you tried to vote?

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It only let me press one button, so I couldn’t vote for a second option as well.

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I voted first for 2 and then 3 was unclickable

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Same here!

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you couldn't vote either?

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I wanted to vote for more than one item, but could only vote for one.

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I am happy to recieve one post a week, but not really bothered if more.

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Happy Friday. If you ever consider moving again, please come to Minnesota. I could use you as a neighbor. (PS I mean that as high praise.) If it weren’t for the four granddaughters, I’d consider Ireland...

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I think you have good taste in sources of info & I like when you share the various sources of info/rabbit holes you’re going down. Your interviews are also always really interesting

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Other than Josh Slocum lol. He is the one person you’ve quoted who I think is certifiably nuts & a problematic character

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Slocum tells the truth and doesn't soften the blow.

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Lol Slocum is off his rocker. He has a serious perception of reality problem & he is extremely reactive - this man will flip out & call you a c-nt over almost nothing & you will not even know why lol. I don’t think he is particularly intelligent nor is his judgment remotely good - he sees things as very black & white, & then rationalizes this style of thinking by convincing himself he is some kind of prophet all seeing eye because his mommy had BPD/was mentally ill lol.

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I will actually provide an example of how nuts & off this guys mind is. He made a post on Twitter in response to one of these libtard types confronting & lecturing a Trump supporter. He promotes a black & white position regarding these TDS people - because his philosophy is ‘2 wrongs make a right’ - & that you should completely write them off, other them in your mind as ruined cluster B lost souls, have zero tolerance, cut them out of your life - blah blah other black and white Slocum ‘insight’. In the long run, this is incredibly counterproductive - but ok.

Someone asked in the comments ‘how do you respond when women do this’ because it was a lady doing it to a guy. I made a simple reply about how the most effective response I’ve seen is for a person being subject to that kind of treatment to remain as calm & classy as possible - because that tends to make the person doing the rude confronting nonsense look bad from my experience. I was just sharing an opinion, take it or leave it. Josh replied with anger & insults - he then checked my profile, confirmed that I was woman & made another reply about how I dare I as a woman ‘tell men what to do’ (as if I was making some kind of command vs just sharing an opinion lol), then called me a c-nt. That was actually the 2nd time I was called a c-nt by him over almost nothing. It’s very very easy to trigger this man into anger because he is not remotely emotionally stable & has all kinds of unexpected trigger points like a damn volcano - generally his trigger points is if you don’t see the world as crazy and black & white as he does lol. If you mildly disagree in any way & dare comment in a way that he doesn’t like on his blog or Twitter he will rage at you in the comments & then block you because he has convinced himself everyone is on the brink of being cluster B & you need to tune them out (because he is NUTSSSSSSS).

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‘My mom was nuts, therefore I have special insight about the direction that society is going & my very black & white proclamations about how everyone has cluster B traits while acting like someone with cluster B traits myself!!!’

I’m pretty sure this man has a very limited historical & political education outside his very limited life experience that the rest of us has, & even less wisdom. I doubt he is particularly well read or deeply thoughtful. He literally rants from the perspective of having had a crazy mother. Join the club lol

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Holy Moly, he really triggered you! You must be one of the people he banned.

Slocum is completely rational, which enrages some people.

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My internet was down so I am just responding now. I love your columns. Don't ever worry about writing too many as far as I'm concerned. I also love your interviews and readings, but the audio could sometimes use more amplification. I'm not much into chat. Happy post-Thanksgiving where we continue to thank God. Right now, I'm thanking Him that my Internet went up.

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I second the motion that questions 2 and 3 should be separated, not substitutable.

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I would like to chat but sometimes I have commitment issues…so I tend toward comment box. Your essays are are terrific, both in content and in style…very natural voice.

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